How to Make Her Squirt (Yep, We Said It and You Can Do It!)

Anne Alloway

Posted on July 16 2022

The holy grail. The brass ring. The big enchilada. However you describe it, it’s a goal that eludes many, but can be realized with some focused effort and a little know how when it comes to her who-who. If you’ve been hanging out on the XXX sites, you’ve likely seen some grand theatrics and have wondered if it’s a real thing. We’re here to tell you that it can happen and you can help her achieve it by following the tips included below. 

Step by Step: The How To's

  1. Set the Mood (and the Expectations)- Getting her to “get there” starts with setting the mood. Putting too many expectations on your make out sesh will only lead to frustration and performance anxiety for both of you. Who needs that?! Instead, start slow, with lots of foreplay, and see where the moment takes you. You’ll get bonus points if you light some candles (we love the Ignite Massage Candle by Kama Sutra) and start with a sensual massage. 

This exotic, scented delight is made with a rich formula of skin-conditioning Coconut Oil, Shea butter and Vitamin E that melts into a warm, luxurious massage oil when lit. Kama Sutra Massage Candles are wax-free and they naturally burn at a low temperature so they won’t harm the skin.

Let's Get it On...

The right music can work miracles when it comes to sending her over the top and we have made it easy for you. Go ahead and set the sexy vibe with our specially curated Heart + Honey Spotify playlist. You can find it here: Heart + Honey Spotify Playlist Trust us, this playlist will be your go-to from now on!

Heart + Honey Spotify Playlist

Alright, the Mood is Set. Now What?

2. Lubricate, Lubricate, Lubricate- A study from Indiana University’s Center for Sexual Health found that lube makes it 50% easier for both men and women to orgasm. Read that again. If a good lube isn’t currently in your repertoire, this is your moment to #addtocart. We love Slow Sex Clitoral Balm by Bijoux Indescrets paired with Simply Aqua Personal Lubricant by Wicked Sensual Care. The warming sensations provided by the clitoral balm work in tandem with the moisturizing olive leaf extract in the Simply Aqua to create a perfect environment for achieving the almighty squirt you’re after. 

Fast-absorbing and warming, Slow Sex Clitoral Balm enhances clitoral sensation for its sole purpose—providing pleasure and orgasms! Patented molecule Thermolat creates a warming effect in a matter of seconds after being applied directly to the clitoris. Ginseng increases blood flow and, once absorbed, arginine increases sensitivity to touch. Compatible with both latex condoms and erotic toys, this balm will last for about 40 minutes for plenty of time to achieve intense sensation that never disappoints!

Wicked Simply Aqua Lube - Made without Glycerin, Propylene Glycol or Parabens,  vegan and cruelty free. Like all Wicked Sensual Care formulas, it is enhanced with their signature Olive Leaf Extract, a natural bio static, that inhibits the spread of harmful bacteria and microorganisms. When you are ready for a clean lube, this one is a must try! 

Lubbed Up. Now What? 

3.  Enlist Help- We’re not talking about a third party (although, do you, we don’t judge!). One of the best ways to reduce performance anxiety is to bring in reinforcements. (There’s a reason why the adult toy industry rakes in $15 billion a year in the United States alone!) Since squirting generally requires G-Spot stimulation or a combination of clitoral stimulation and G-Spot stimulation, an adult toy can come in clutch. We highly recommend this Glass Squirting Kit to get the job done. Featuring a sensuous ribbed glass dildo with a distinct curve and the tantalizing tongue with orgasm inducing nubs and ridges, this duo will help you stimulate the G spot (you know, the slightly rough area on the inside of the vaginal wall facing her stomach that feels a little like the skin of an orange) while simultaneously working her clitoris with your fingers or tongue. This duo, plus some patience and finesse, will make you the hero of Horny Town. 👑 

Not a glass dil kind of gal? Not to worry! There are lots of amazing motorized options as well. If you’re to sexual wellness accessories, you may want to start slow with something like the Nubii by Nu Sensuelle. After all, not every day is a power day and not everyone is a power queen. For those who enjoy a slightly less intense vibration or are newer to adult pleasure products, we present the Nubii (pronounced newbie) just for you. Although the shape is familiar, the Nubii is slightly thinner and shorter allowing for easy handling during intimate play and it's the perfect size for travel. The Nubii is easy to operate with a single button to power through five speeds and five vibration patterns. It's USB rechargeable, 100% body-safe silicone, and 100% waterproof making the Nubii the perfect companion in your sexual pleasure journey and a great warm up for any squirting adventure you set out on. 

  • Silky smooth surface
  • 5 speeds and 5 vibration patterns
  • Perfectly sized for travel
  • 100% waterproof
  • 100% body-safe silicone
  • Rechargeable

If you’re an experienced pro or just want something more substantial, consider the Lady Luck G-Spot Vibe—the hero item from our March “Lady Luck” box. This sophisticated stroke of luck has the fortune of dual functions. It’s blessed with the "come hither" motion of human touch that creates the most exquisite stimulation of the g-spot, as well as 10 vibration options of the shaft of the toy. Plus--bonus!--it’s waterproof with magnetic charging. 

There's a reason why this beauty was chosen as the hero item of our March Queen Bee box. A simply perfect dil-- we promise that the curved head and soft shaft will have her screaming your name. You're welcome. 

If there's one thing we could have you take away from this how-to, it would be to have patience and enjoy the experience. You've got what it takes and the tips and tricks outlined here will help you cross that finish line.


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